
In 1949, when I was around 1, I had just become a walker, or should I say, a toddler. My family of 4 at that time (Daddy, Mommy, Judy and me) had recently moved into a subdivision of homes in San Bernardino, California. It was the first house my parents had ever owned--small and identical to all the others in the neighborhood, but it was home. My father was a civil engineer for the Southern California Gas Company and my mother was a stay-home mom.

This was one of the first colored photos my mom took of us. By 1951, my brother Mike had come along. Judy was 4, I was 3 and Mike was 2. My dad built this nice fieldstone rock wall around part of our back yard. My mom planted pretty yellow and pink roses along part of the wall. When we were older we used to jump off the wall for fun.

Here, in the summer of 1951, I'm three and a half, hanging upside down from the swingset my dad had built for us. Being upside down was one of my most favorite things in the world to do. I guess I liked the feeling of the blood rushing to my head and the view from that perspective. I'd hang upside down from the monkey bars, from the swing chain, lean over backwards from the piano bench, from my bed, ask Daddy to hold me upside down. I attribute it to being a breach-born baby and must not have gotten enough head-down time in the womb.

Pat-3 1/2, Mike-2+, Judy-4 1/2, Mary Alice- 10 days old. The Gas Company had transferred my dad to Whittier, CA, so we lived there for a couple of years. In September of 1951, my sweet little sister Mary Alice was born. So my mother had four kids within four and a half years. Sometimes people would ask my mom if we were Catholic or Mormon and she would say, "No, we're Methodists." It would be one more year until Judy, the eldest, started school.

My poor brother Mike was outnumbered by females, and he had two moms telling him what to do and what not to do: my mom and my sister, Judy. Judy is keeping Mike in line here with that look.

1952-Judy was definitely the second mom in our family. My perception was that she
always got to hold the baby and I
never got to hold the baby. Sometimes we would play "house." Judy would always be the mother, Mike and Mary Alice would be the kids, and all that was left for me was to be the father. :( So I made the best of it and tried to talk in a low voice.

Fall 1953 - Mary Alice-2, Mike-4, Pat-5, Judy-6. My mom would take lots of posed group pictures of us in hopes of getting a good one to send with our family's Christmas card. This was one that didn't quite make it.

December 1953- Mike-4 1/2, Pat/5 1/2. I guess this Santa would only take a maximum of two kids at a time. I think this photo should be used in a How-To-Be-Santa-Claus manual illustrating what
not to do, i.e., pinch little kids' arms and hold little kids too close (especially little kids who were afraid of him, like me).

By this time we had moved back to San Bernardino, where we lived until the end of 5th grade for me (June of 1959). For Christmas in 1954 we all got cowboy and cowgirl outfits. Here I am as a 6-year-old scowling cowgirl. Actually, I just loved my cowgirl outfit, but I was not a big-time smiler. In fact I was a very serious child who rarely smiled.

1955- fall. Judy,8, and I, 7, are wearing dresses that Mom made for us. A neighbor had taught our mom how to sew, convincing her that since she had 4 kids, she really should learn how to sew. My mother sewed lots of our dresses in the fifties and taught all three of us girls how to sew, too. Those were the days when girls were only allowed to wear dresses or skirts and blouses to school.

Christmas 1955 - Pat-7+, Mike-6+, Mary Alice-4, Judy-8. I was happier about this Santa because this time I didn't have to sit in his lap. Mike was a buffer between Santa and me. Judy and I are wearing the same dresses as in the last photo, but this time with sweaters on due to the cold (65 degree) December day.

January 1956 - These are dresses that we received for Christmas from our grandfather in Michigan. I'm almost 8, Judy's almost 9, Mary Alice is 4, and I don't know who the baby is, perhaps a neighbor.

Fall 1956 - Mary Alice-5, Mike-7, Pat-8 1/2, Judy-9 1/2. My mom made all our dresses and Mike's shirt from the same fabric during the summer. Remember when Ric Rac was used as decoration on dresses? I think this was the first day of school for us.

Fall 1958 - Mary Alice-7, Daddy-39, Pat-10. My mom made these dresses for us and they were our "church" dresses. We only wore them to church. Remember those days when you dressed up to go to church? How things have changed!
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